How to stop being insecure.

Insecurities are very common in today's world. Most of the people in this world are suffering from insecurities about themselves and always think "What will the society think or say.", which is one of the reasons people are always unhappy and dissatisfied in their lives.

Let's talk in the easiest language now. A person who is insecure about himself/herself will always be sad and if the person did not get secure at the right time, the insecurities will eat him up and he will not even recognize what happened.

People are insecure about their height, scars, and even pimples and acne. They just think about that and get sad again and again and they are ready to do whatever they had to to get rid of it. But what they do not understand is that they need to get rid of their insecurities and not of their problems. 

The real problem here is their insecurities. This in today's world has increased because of 'social media'. Social media is very useful for humans but at the same time, it is very harmful to everyone. People get insecure about themselves because they saw their friend looking so good in the photo. This shit is stupid by the way. The reality is, it is not the face that looks good, it is the filters that make it look good and people do not understand this simple thing. 

Insecurities are responsible for the lack of self-confidence. People who are insecure about themselves often end up with no confidence. They lack the confidence of talking to strangers and get anxious while talking to them. This results in sweat all over your face and body.

If you are insecure about anything - your face, your body, your voice - or anything, you need to first develop a mindset and understand that if you don't try at all, you will never get rid of your insecurities. Build self-awareness and know why are you insecure. If you do not know what the problem is, you will not be able to solve it. Get to know what the problem is. Are you getting insecure by seeing the photos of your friend's jawline which is fake? Then you need to know that it is fake and you can even unfriend that person. But unfriending will not solve all of your problems. 

The increase in the number of users of social media has also increased the number of insecure people all around the globe. But this does not mean you will not use social media at all now. Everyone on social media is just flexing whatever they have. But the reality is that they flex more than what they have. Let's take an example.

Suppose one of your classmates or someone you love posts some photos on their social media that they attended a party last night with their many friends. It seems in the photos that they all enjoyed and had a great time with each other and it obviously looks like that person has many friends which are "cool". Now, here you are, you don't have many friends like that person and you are already insecure about your lack of friends. Then you see this and gets more insecure and start feeling bad for no reason.

It may also happen that you see someone who looks good in the photos on their Instagram. You notice that their skin is perfect and they are looking very good in the photos. But the reality is - It's all because of the filters. I mean, that all is fake, not real. That is the effect of social media on us. 

What you need to do is to first identify what are your strengths and you need to work on those strengths and make them better. You need to embrace your weaknesses as well as your strengths. If you will see deep inside yourself, you will find that you have many strengths and you have many unique traits.

You also feel too much insecure because you really don't have anything important to care about other than your insecurities. If you are just focusing on your insecurities, then you get sad about them then chances are that you do this because you do not have something more important to care about. And when you think that you are insecure, this feeling generates more insecurities and then the same happens again. 

You will stop getting insecure about yourself only when you will stop caring about your insecurities and get something more important to do for yourself. You need to work on yourself every single day and improve yourself so that you can make your strengths stronger and then embrace those strengths.

If you are a person who is insecure about any of your traits, then you need to just stop comparing yourself to anyone. You need to know yourself and compare yourself to yourself and then be yourself! Let me tell you something, if you think "what people will think" before doing something, you need to remember that everybody is thinking about themselves man. They are busy with their lives and really don't give a shit about what you do. If you have acne on your face, just remember that it is very common and you will have acne because you are a human, not a dog.

Do not get insecure about yourself. You are enough!

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If you want to learn how to stop caring about what others think, you can just click here and read my article which deals with the problem of caring too much about society.

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